Are You Holding Yourself Back by Judging Others?
“Some people come into our life as a blessing, while others come into our life as a lesson, so love them for who they are instead of judging them for who they are not.
Yolanda Hadid
Instead of critiquing others, why not choose to focus on your own life? Often we can be quick to form an opinion and criticize the actions or beliefs of those around us. But when you start looking inward rather than outward for solutions, this is a sign that you are capable in resolving issues within yourself whilst also avoiding engaging with anything negative. Focusing positively has far reaching benefits by lifting our moods and improving mental wellbeing instead!
When we're not content with our own lives, it can be easy to project these negative feelings onto those around us in the form of judgement. Maybe this reflects a lack of faith we have in ourselves - when faced with confronting issues within, it's easier for some to shift focus and concentrate on others instead. Do you ever feel like people should act or think just as similarly to yourself? Applying time towards evaluating your character flaws is an effective way at gaining self-awareness; finding out what needs improving so that changes may be made and progress achieved.
Knowing how to use your energy wisely is key. Ask yourself if it would be more beneficial to address the things you don't like about others or focus on improving what you find lacking in yourself. We all need a sense of self-acceptance and understanding that nobody's perfect; even Oprah acknowledged this, reminding us "When we know better, we do better." Consider devoting time and effort towards personal growth instead of getting caught up criticizing those around us.
It's easy to be consumed by what other people are doing, but if you want your dream life then it is essential to invest in yourself. It can also be useful at times to take note of negative traits that could potentially disrupt your aspirations; using discretion and discretion when making decisions based on the behavior of others will help you stay focused and build an existence tailored for success.
